1981

Eating out with him: Can you dine together and still entwine together? (August 1981)

When his body says cha-cha, ine says walz. And vice versa (September 1981)


1982

I look out a window and see a view: he sees smudges on the glass (January 1982)

For some couples, television violence is what goes on in front of the screen (March 1982)

Whoever said love is blind? Lovers notie every pimple, every pound (April 1982)

When a pack rat lives with a clean sweeper, on eof you may just have to pack it in (May 1982)

Do you read malevolent meanings into your partner's behavior? Take this P.Q. (Paranoid Quotient) test to see just how crazy you are (August 1982)

Know thy opponent: How to fight with the passive-aggressor, the prosecutr, the sulker, the exaggerator, even the hit-and-run artist, and win! (September 1982)

How many wrong numbers did you get before you connected with Mr. Right? (October 1982)


1983

Read this column and learn the answers to the important questions: Does he really love me? Can I really trust him? Am I better off without him? (August 1983)

How good is he at twisting you around his little finger? Take this quiz and find out. (July 1983)

Self_help for couples who wonder where the romance went


1984

When two sets of parents meddle in one relationship (yours), the result can be full-scalle war (January 1984)

When the subject is relationships, don't beilieve everything you read (February 1984)

How to put a little sexual oomph back in your life (March 1984)

We share our eals, we share our bed, but when I grush my teeth-I want to be alone (April 1984)

What holds unlikely lovers together? (May 1984)

June wedding wanted? Just do as I say (not as I do) (June 1984)

Can You Remodel A Man? It's Risky-Even Though He'd Be So Much Better Off Your Way (July 1984)

Do you tell the truth and nothing but? (And who are you kidding?) (August 1984)

Does he tell the truth and nothing but? (Take this quiz and find out) (September 1984)

Peace Treaties. Why it's smart to kiss eyes-open when you make up (October 1984)

Get into the holiday spirit-Give thanks for what he's not (November 1984)

Give him a gift he'll always rember-not one that's too awful to forget (December 1984)


1985

Romantic perils of the two-career relationship (January 1985)

Easy ways to find out: who's the big cheese in your relationship (February 1985)

Whatever your partner's scared of, be assured-he's not crazy, he's male (March 1985)

When love means having to say "get lost" (May 1985)

Happy birthday? Somewhere between weeping and whooping lies the perfect celebration for you both (June 1985)

Wishful reading. Self-help books someone should write (July 1985)

Etiquette? Is that a new perfume? Updating Emily Post-how manners can help with your man (August 1985)

Watch out for weekends. In those two luscious days lie hazards to your romance (September 1985)

Home-Wrecked. It's a natural disaster: disagreement about decorating (October 1985)

Why fight? 21 ways to win without a battle (November 1985)

Give your relationship this checkup (December 1985)


1986

Your Space or His? Your harts fit together, but your households don't (January 1986)

The Message in Your Fantasies. Is it,"Why am I with this Bozo?" (February 1986)

Don't let His Goat Get Yours. Three easy steps to Psyching out his anger (March 1986)

Hot Stuff! How to defuse, deflect and deal with his anger (April 1986)

Hello? Hello? Is Anybody Listening? Signals that yur relationship needs a hearing aid (May 1986)

Couple's Guide TO Hearing Each Other. What you you do when what he says is mostly "Huh?" (June 1986)

The ten-career couple. Nine of the jobs are yours, one is his (July 1986)

His truly awful habits. How to cope with a tooth-tapping, hair-twirling, knuckle-cracking man (August 1986)

What's So Funny? He is, when you're lucky (September 1986)

What's Green and Lives With Love? The beast, jealousy (October 1986)

Can't get him to talk? He may be saying it with his legs (November 1986)

How to Christmas-proof your relationship: a guide to trouble-free cheer (December 1986)


1987

Dinner-party fights. How to keep the mayhem minimal (January 1987)

How to survive the party when he's the world's worst guest (February 1987)

Phone frictions. How to understand th epitfalls of sharing a phone with a man (March 1987)

The rewards and risks of snooping ( April 1987)

Emergency! Is your partner a help or a hindranec in a crisis? (May 1987)

Risky relationships. How to live together when one of you wants to live at the edge (June 1987)

He's feeling sick? Take two aspirin and wathc out (July 1987)

Literary Fantasies. Summer reading that could really wise him up (August 1987)

Seeing Him Through a Dad-O-Scope. How well will he cope with a kid? (September 1987)

Advice from a sentimentalist. Don't worry if he forgets your "shared memories" (October 1987)

How Not to Go Nuts When He Goes Away, In fact, how to enjoy yourself (November 1987)

The Worlsd's Worst-Matched Couples. And you think you got it rough... (December 1987)


1988

Once a Frog, Always a Frog? Or can you make him over into a prince? (January 1988)

"Flash! Grown Man Reverts to Helpless Boy!" Sound familiar? (February 1988)

Does he ever call you "hysterical"? Here's how you counterattack (March 1988)

"What's what you're wearing?" Where do men get their strange ideas about women's clothes? (April 1988)

Is Love Fattening? Sharing an address doesn't mean sharing a blet size (May 1988)

A Dozen Ways To Let Him Know You Care (October 1988)

Why you need to know his ideas about loyalty (May 1988)

Are a Vacation-compatible couple? How to find out (June 1988)

Are sparks flying in your house? How to mix a relationship and home repairs (August 1988)

Couples who shop together... must be crazy (September 1988)

Disastrous dancing. Can a person do the two-step all alone? (November 1988)

How couples lose friends fast. Yes: mis-matchmaking (December 1988)


1989

Oh No, Not New Year's Eve! Do's and Don'ts for the Night That is Seldom Perfect (January 1989)


undated

Fifty (or so) ways to say excuse me, and charm the pants off an angry man (undated)